Hey people!
I was recently asked on a date. There was an age difference so finding a spot to blend in and chat was not easy: I wanted a discreet location, but meeting in someone's home becomes a bootycall. Anyway we were able to find a busy bar where we wouldn't be noticed. As the evening progressed we turned to naughty talk. I soon learned that my date likes to spank young boys and verbally insult them: being a rough dom is a turn on for him. I made sure I sounded open to the idea but I had misgivings.
Let me share them with you guys. First and foremost, will a man still respect you if you let him do that to you? I'm no prude in bed but I'm uncomfortable with losing the power dynamic. What's the guarantee that a guy you let dominate you in bed won't eventually get abusive outside the bedroom?
What do you think? And how do you manage your public dates?
Spank!
